Finally,
Us
PARIS → ??? → BARCELONA
17—20 September Barcelona
Two souls, one city, and a very special connection, ready to be explored and enjoyed.
Enter the weekend
ROUTES / NOT DESTINY
Two routes,
one more stop.
The route starts in 2019: Alfonso reaches Groningen, Rossana reaches Pisa one year later, and the two lines meet at an October 2025 work event in Paris before Barcelona in September 2026.
Alfonso reaches Groningen
possible future CERN ↔ BARCELONA, back and forth every so often if it feels right.
A real map, a compressed timeline, and plenty left unknown.
Map outline: Natural Earth 1:110m · route pins use city coordinates
The agreement,
but make it kind
but make it kind
- No pressure. Plans can change.
- A no is complete. A maybe means pause.
- You can opt out at any time, for any reason.
- We check in. We listen. We adjust.
- Clicking accept is not consent to future anything.
- Kindness is the dress code.
WEEKEND NOTE
A little room to breathe.
I understand you’re settling into your new life, processing the other things in your life, and also trying to enjoy this weekend with me.
That can be quite a bit to process. If you need time for practical things to settle in, or simply some space for yourself, I understand.
We can be as close and/or as distant as feels right, and we just talk about it. You should feel safe to express yourself with me, verbally or physically, as much as feels easy, comfortable, and mutual.
My honest forecast: I’ll probably want to get closer (as close as I can get to your hand and that face of yours). That’s an invitation, not a deadline.
This is a plan for a weekend together, not a promise about how the weekend has to go.
Pick a side quest
17—20 September. Pick a few anchors; leave the rest to the city.
We can change the plan anytime.
Optional, obviously.
Maybe later
Some plot twists are better left unplanned. Feel safe to express yourself with me, verbally or physically, as a friend or as a lover. Let’s enjoy this lucky moment we worked so much for.
My preference is no secret: I’d like to be close to you.
Still, we follow the moment.
Not a script.
How excited are you
to finally be together?
A tiny final check-in, just because I’m curious. Choose whatever feels true.
EXCITEMENT / 1–5
1 = gently curious · 5 = very excited
When you’re ready, send me the little notebook of your choices.